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Spent a year in denial....

GR51

Member
Messages
6
Location
NorthEast
Type of diabetes
Type 2
Treatment type
Tablets (oral)
Hello! New to this so bear with me.....
T2 and diagnosed last December couldn't possibly be right eh? Tried to get my head around it followed instructions and manged to get hbc1a down to under 50 in may. Go me! Then in August on holiday knew I was doing not so good ended up with infection and operation which pushed my level up to 74.... Struggled since and today made a decision to ask for metformin have I done the right thing????
Tired and emotional my partner hopes my moods will be better and that I will be nicer to him. I don't know if I should just have carried on trying myself or will medication really help where I have found myself??
No longer in denial here I sit thinking bitter thoughts about why me?
Anyway hoping that joining the forums may make me feel more positive.....
Sorry I rambling on.......
Cheers! Gx
 
Hello! New to this so bear with me.....
T2 and diagnosed last December couldn't possibly be right eh? Tried to get my head around it followed instructions and manged to get hbc1a down to under 50 in may. Go me! Then in August on holiday knew I was doing not so good ended up with infection and operation which pushed my level up to 74.... Struggled since and today made a decision to ask for metformin have I done the right thing????
Tired and emotional my partner hopes my moods will be better and that I will be nicer to him. I don't know if I should just have carried on trying myself or will medication really help where I have found myself??
No longer in denial here I sit thinking bitter thoughts about why me?
Anyway hoping that joining the forums may make me feel more positive.....
Sorry I rambling on.......
Cheers! Gx

Welcome to the forum, I'm tagging @daisy1 who can provide great information for new members.

I was on meds but came off. I wobbled around Aug/Sep but feel I am now back on track and would fight before a Doc put me on Metformin. Maybe with support we can help you? So many wonderful people on here who have helped me, have a look around and ask any questions. Best of luck, and welcome.
 
it sounds like you know exactly why your reading went back up and you know how to make it come back down again. My feeling is that its better to see how far you can get without the meds, rather than to take the meds and then not have a clue whether its the diet or the meds making a difference. so I would try and hold off for as long as you can. When you know you did all you could and its still not enough, THEN is the time to take the extra help
 
I was diagnosed a week ago and started metformin the same day.
The change was almost instantaneous.
I feel better than I have for ages. I can go upstairs easily, after wishing I had a stairlift for some weeks - feel far more flexible, my vision is clearer - trying to lower colesterol by diet changes has pushed my HbA1c up into the 90s. I was probably prediabetic for years but I ate low carb.
I suggest that you see how you feel, and if you do get some positive effect plus a good report after the next blood test - I go back in three months to be checked, then you can make a more informed decision.
 
Don't beat yourself up about it, as the say the past is vast, you are now in the right frame of mind and have come to the right place.
Only you and your health provider can make the decision about going on to meds, personally every little helps, if meds can sort out issues now, why wait, you can always stop when you get on top of things again.
 
@GR51

Hello and welcome to the forum :) Here is the information we give to new members and I hope you will find it useful. Ask as many questions as you want and someone will be able to help.


BASIC INFORMATION FOR NEW MEMBERS

Diabetes is the general term to describe people who have blood that is sweeter than normal. A number of different types of diabetes exist.

A diagnosis of diabetes tends to be a big shock for most of us. It’s far from the end of the world though and on this forum you'll find well over 220,000 people who are demonstrating this.

On the forum we have found that with the number of new people being diagnosed with diabetes each day, sometimes the NHS is not being able to give all the advice it would perhaps like to deliver - particularly with regards to people with type 2 diabetes.

The role of carbohydrate

Carbohydrates are a factor in diabetes because they ultimately break down into sugar (glucose) within our blood. We then need enough insulin to either convert the blood sugar into energy for our body, or to store the blood sugar as body fat.

If the amount of carbohydrate we take in is more than our body’s own (or injected) insulin can cope with, then our blood sugar will rise.

The bad news

Research indicates that raised blood sugar levels over a period of years can lead to organ damage, commonly referred to as diabetic complications.

The good news

People on the forum here have shown that there is plenty of opportunity to keep blood sugar levels from going too high. It’s a daily task but it’s within our reach and it’s well worth the effort.

Controlling your carbs

The info below is primarily aimed at people with type 2 diabetes, however, it may also be of benefit for other types of diabetes as well.

There are two approaches to controlling your carbs:

  • Reduce your carbohydrate intake
  • Choose ‘better’ carbohydrates
Reduce your carbohydrates

A large number of people on this forum have chosen to reduce the amount of carbohydrates they eat as they have found this to be an effective way of improving (lowering) their blood sugar levels.

The carbohydrates which tend to have the most pronounced effect on blood sugar levels tend to be starchy carbohydrates such as rice, pasta, bread, potatoes and similar root vegetables, flour based products (pastry, cakes, biscuits, battered food etc) and certain fruits.

Choosing better carbohydrates

The low glycaemic index diet is often favoured by healthcare professionals but some people with diabetes find that low GI does not help their blood sugar enough and may wish to cut out these foods altogether.

Read more on carbohydrates and diabetes.

Over 145,000 people have taken part in the Low Carb Program - a free 10 week structured education course that is helping people lose weight and reduce medication dependency by explaining the science behind carbs, insulin and GI.

Eating what works for you

Different people respond differently to different types of food. What works for one person may not work so well for another. The best way to see which foods are working for you is to test your blood sugar with a glucose meter.

To be able to see what effect a particular type of food or meal has on your blood sugar is to do a test before the meal and then test after the meal. A test 2 hours after the meal gives a good idea of how your body has reacted to the meal.

The blood sugar ranges recommended by NICE are as follows:

Blood glucose ranges for type 2 diabetes
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 8.5 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (adults)
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 9 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (children)
  • Before meals: 4 to 8 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 10 mmol/l
However, those that are able to, may wish to keep blood sugar levels below the NICE after meal targets.

Access to blood glucose test strips

The NICE guidelines suggest that people newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes should be offered:

  • structured education to every person and/or their carer at and around the time of diagnosis, with annual reinforcement and review
  • self-monitoring of plasma glucose to a person newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes only as an integral part of his or her self-management education

Therefore both structured education and self-monitoring of blood glucose should be offered to people with type 2 diabetes. Read more on getting access to blood glucose testing supplies.

You may also be interested to read questions to ask at a diabetic clinic.

Note: This post has been edited from Sue/Ken's post to include up to date information.
 
We all fall of the wagon at some time we are only human after all so don't beat yourself up about it. Stop stressing about what you did just think about what you can do now it's never to late to get back on the wagon and you will be fine
 
Hello! New to this so bear with me.....
T2 and diagnosed last December couldn't possibly be right eh? Tried to get my head around it followed instructions and manged to get hbc1a down to under 50 in may. Go me! Then in August on holiday knew I was doing not so good ended up with infection and operation which pushed my level up to 74.... Struggled since and today made a decision to ask for metformin have I done the right thing????
Tired and emotional my partner hopes my moods will be better and that I will be nicer to him. I don't know if I should just have carried on trying myself or will medication really help where I have found myself??
No longer in denial here I sit thinking bitter thoughts about why me?
Anyway hoping that joining the forums may make me feel more positive.....
Sorry I rambling on.......
Cheers! Gx
I initially did lchf after being diagnosed prediabetic it was great but fell off the waggon for 2 yrs.
I struggled with symtoms for a year and finally went back due to recurring infections.
Diagnosed T2. I actually took it better than I thought. They offered me metformin which I refused but then decided to take as I felt so unwell all the time.
Due to the lchf, weightloss and metformin I feel so much better physically and mentally. I to can walk up the stairs normally instead of one at a time.
I have sad, cba days but these are very far and few between. It's still early days for me so I'm giving myself a break.

Goodluck
 
Hello! New to this so bear with me.....
T2 and diagnosed last December couldn't possibly be right eh? Tried to get my head around it followed instructions and manged to get hbc1a down to under 50 in may. Go me! Then in August on holiday knew I was doing not so good ended up with infection and operation which pushed my level up to 74.... Struggled since and today made a decision to ask for metformin have I done the right thing????
Tired and emotional my partner hopes my moods will be better and that I will be nicer to him. I don't know if I should just have carried on trying myself or will medication really help where I have found myself??
No longer in denial here I sit thinking bitter thoughts about why me?
Anyway hoping that joining the forums may make me feel more positive.....
Sorry I rambling on.......
Cheers! Gx

Hello, you being here is the best thing you could do right now. So much support and information freely given. That's gotta help .As said before, don't beat yourself up, the hormones you produce when you're cross at yourself don't help. Focus on the things you can do to help yourself. Little changes, (no more crunchies or walkers cheese and onion crisps for me) or bigger ones, cut all the obvious carbs, bread pasta rice pots.

I'm probably telling you stuff you already know (sorry, I am the queen of rambling), I really just wanted to say welcome and good luck, Keep reading and posting.:happy:
 
Thank you so much everyone for the tips and welcome day 3 of the metformin feeling OK for now
 
Hi @GR51 - What kind of Metformin are you on? = Standard or SR version? Diet and Exercise will have a better impact on lowering Blood Sugars. Metformin takes several weeks to build up in your system to have the desired effect. :)
 
Hey, GR51, and welcome. Ask as many questions as you like here.

Don't feel bad about opting to take Metformin. It may well help get your numbers down in the short term and you may be able to stop taking it once you've regained control.

A walk round the block after meals helps push the numbers down too. Good luck!
 
Thanks it's not SR just the regular and I am trying with more exercise and diet. Don't see this - the medication - as a quick fix in any way.
One question been on my mind over the last couple of days is should I be testing my levels? I asked when I saw the Dr on Tuesday but she said I didn't need to but I have read since that it's an important part of self management what's the general opinion?
To test or not to test? That's my Thursday night question!
 
Hi @GR51
If you test you will know how you are doing. I found it so helpful (and still do) to work out what foods I could eat and what were better avoided. I was an exception as I was given and meter and strips on prescription to begin with and told to test. Now I have some control and don't want to lose my control I bought a sdcodefree meter and test strips as they are the cheapest.
http://homehealth-uk.com/product-category/blood-glucose/blood-glucose-monitor/
 
If you do go with that one then you need to say you're diabetic so you don't pay VAT and if you want to buy strips in bulk there are discounts
5 packs 264086
10 packs 975833
In UK we use mmol/L
 
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