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Type 1 partner uncontrolled diabetes


Have to agree highs make me feel miserable and tired too
 

Hi Marie,

Thank you so much for this.

The last week, with a lot of information from this forum, has really opened his eyes to what needs to change.

Today was the first day in over 10 years he had a look at his diet, and thought that he may start to make changes. We worked out on an average day, his daily intake is 48g protein, 289g carbs and 41g fat, with approx. 181g sugar.... I feel this is definitely a contributing factor to his high levels!!!

I can't thank you all enough, and hope this has been an eyeopener.
 
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Thank you so much for this. He doesn't really have a team...he sees his endo once every 6 months or so, and that's it. We have had a look at his diet, and worked out on an average day, his daily intake is 48g protein, 289g carbs and 41g fat, with approx. 181g sugar daily, so he is going to start to make some changes, slowly but surely, fingers crossed.
 
Hi Kat, TBH he isn't a million miles from 'reasonable' control - we've see a lot worse. The amount of carbs isn't a problem as such so long as he's balancing it out with insulin correctly. He just needs to get in to the routine of testing a lot (for a while at least whilst he gets on top of things) - or using a CGM/Libre device to get the full picture.

Whats his HBA1C been like? if he's regularly attending 'clinic' I'm amazing they haven't picked up on things being slightly out of control.
 
It was around the 12 mark at last test. He doesn't often see his doctor, and i know he used to fast before the blood test so it would bring it down? Not sure how accurate this is ha. Since we had a discussion he is now testing about 5 to 6 times a day, and I'm thinking I'm going to try get him the freestyle libre just to give it a try of, and see what he thinks.
 
LOL fasting before a hba1c blood test will not affect the result one bit! (It's a measure (of sorts) of the average BG levels over the last ~3months with a slight weighting towards the most recent few weeks - but a hba1c of 12 equates to an average BG of 16mmol) Good to hear he's testing a lot more now, as a result is his bloods slightly better? Is he starting to tweak his dosages more to compensate for BG levels and the amount of carbs he's having?

12% hba1c result isn't good though so theres plenty of room for improvement having said that I wouldn't aim to lower it radically quickly he could damage his eyes - suggest he works out manually what his average BG test has been this last week, and then next week aim to reduce that slightly, so say by end of Jan hes averaging at the 8 mark. This might give him something to work to/aim for?
 
It's very much rollercoastering still, and he's very annoyed with it..yesterday he ate one thing all day and end up at 17, then 14 by the time he went to bed.

Thank you so much for this.
 
He's not taking enough of a basal insulin probably. Unfortunately the best way to tell what rate you need is to fast for the day and see what your numbers do. But you can break it down into fasting segments for the day, Fast for 6 hours with no insulin (or food) and do your numbers start to go up after 6 hours? The thing you want to make sure of is not going too low if you are on one shot per day, so you should test half way through the night too, not too close to when you wake up because people normally have an increase before they wake up for the day.

But if you only drop to a 14, you need more insulin for the meal. It might need to be delivered as a correction dose later. But depending on what he eats, like higher fat it can delay absorption of the carbs you ate. Generally you start out with a carb to insulin ratio and then it is slowly increased until you figure out the right dosage.

Warning!! If you fast for the day keep in mind that if your basal is too high you might have to eat. Watch and make sure you do not go hypo! It does not sound like he is at a too high level, but you never know.
 
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It's very much rollercoastering still, and he's very annoyed with it..yesterday he ate one thing all day and end up at 17, then 14 by the time he went to bed.

Thank you so much for this.

What type of basal is he using and when does he take it.
 
I am a type 2 so a whole other kettle of fish - but I eat less carb in a week than your husband eats in a day.....
I do enjoy the things I do eat - and prefer it to the stodgy diets which I was told were the healthy way to eat. It certainly didn't feel like it.
Heres hoping you can get things sorted for your husband.
 
Hi, My turn around was a great endocrinologist (I'm also in Australia) and he talked pump...took a bit of persuading and a DAFNE course but once things started to improve I felt so much better. I think part of it is getting to the point where you control it rather than it controls you...certainly a shift in perspective but a small success can be very rewarding. If you have private health a letter from the endocrinologist stating that he needs a pump can get him started. You can even trial one but the initial setup period takes some adherence to routine. best wishes...you are right 29 is way young!
 
"thinks he needs it"

He's T1, he needs it! (although I guess he could be having a carb free lunch.......) And I assume the novorapid 'morning and night' refer to being taken with his breakfast and evening meals?
 
He takes Novo Rapid - Morning and night - and lunch time if he "thinks he needs it". Then Lantus at night.

OK, so despite the claims of the manufacturer, Lantus (Glargine based insulin) does not usually last for 24 hrs in the body - most of us would see around 18hrs before its effectiveness starts to tail off. If he takes it at night then it could help to explain why he's high the following evening.

To get around this shortcoming, many of us split the dose but there's not much I can say without breaking forum rules on giving dosing advice. You should seek advice from a medical professional before changing insulin dosing (that's the small print) but as an experienced diabetic - if your fella is happy to experiment then maybe try it.

When I was using Abasaglar ( a Lantus biosimilar product) I tried 25/75 and 40/60 before eventually settling on 50/50 but its important to recognise that what works for some people may not work for others. Also think about the timing as a large dose at night could cause night time hypos.

Catch you later.
 
As a T1, there is no really deciding if you need it. Your body just can't wing it. You have to have it for any carb you eat.
The only thing is if your basal dose is too high so you have "extra" in your system it might cover some carbs. Or I suppose as @urbanracer has said a very low carb or no carb meal. (Even then some people need a little insulin to metabolize a high fat high protein meal.)
 

His highest carb meal of the day is at lunch!!
 
Thank you for this. I've sent him this to have a look at, and I am thinking/hoping he will take advice!

I'm pushing for him to go back to his doctor, as he doesn't have a team or anyone he regularly sees to work out how much he should be having, as he really doesn't have much idea about any calculations.. but it's all small steps and I'm stoked he's been listening so far! Thank you so much for your help.
 
He's T1, he needs it! (although I guess he could be having a carb free lunch.......) And I assume the novorapid 'morning and night' refer to being taken with his breakfast and evening meals?
Yep that's correct, breakfast and evening... haha his most carb laden meal of the day is lunch!!!
 

Oh lord! Get him on here!! Tell him we won't bite!!!

And we Pommies are quite willing to help.
 
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