One of my old bosses said to me "You will probably outlive us all because you're constantly under the spotlight." I have ignored predictions for most of my life. I have at least outlived that boss!
Oddly, my mum was told some “things” on my diagnosis in the mid 1970s.
We let a room out to a student nurse a couple of years later & I broke into her room whilst she was out “clubbing” to peruse her medical books.
What I saw after working through the aphabet of conditions in the D entry wasn’t “mostly harmless.” Like the Hitchhiker's guide to the galaxy on Earth I was also reading at the time..
lol, the student nurse would quite often get home drunk & discuss “life the universe & everything” with a 10 year old after a binge.
Or realy lonely & down in which the noise woke my mum to play surrogate mother whilst this young woman bawled in the bathroom.?
My dad wisely. Kept out of it..
My mum always seemed shocked at my seemingly cavalier attitude to the topic of human demise..