Hi all,
I was diagnosed type 1 when I was 18, I was fortunate to be able to have one child who unfortunately was diagnosed Coeliac when he was 6. I had been diagnosed as Coeliac when he was 2. He has been getting checked for diabetes antibodies in the Trialnet study since his first birthday and so far everything has come back normal. However, his inclusion in this study finishes when he is 18. Obviously I worry about him developing Diabetes as he already has one of my autoimmune diseases but his specialist said that in this case that we had got the Coeliac early ... it would have been a year earlier if his doctor had done the tests I pleaded for and not put his symptoms down to anxiety and emotions of being at school. The specialist said that sometimes undiagnosed Coeliac disease can provoke diabetes type one.
However, I do think somethings are just the luck of the draw. I had no idea I was Coeliac when I was pregnant and I am the only diabetic amongst all the grandchildren and great grandchildren on both maternal and paternal sides. Neither of my parents or my siblings have it.
My paternal grandmother got diabetes when she was 60 and her brother, my great uncle, got type one aged 21. I come from a big family and so far I am the only diabetic... I often think it was because I was both my grandmother’s and my great uncle’s favourite
On the other hand, on the maternal side we have had another two diagnoses of Coeliac since mine and my son’s.
However, although there are risks involved of diabetics passing on diabetes to their children I remember the doctor telling me that life is full of risk and that the heightened risk isn’t really that high and that he majority of diabetic parents have children who do not go on to develop the disease. At the end of the day we can pass on numerous things to our kids without even knowing.. I realize as type one diabetic mothers or indeed fathers we are always there worrying that one day this hideous disease could happen to them but I tell myself so could a million other things, we just have to be vigilant and if it did happen we have the knowledge to help them that our own parents didn’t .
Generally I’m much better at talking than writing so I hope I didn’t waffle too much I just wanted to say if you are diabetic and thinking of having children IMHO you should go for it .. my mum had no idea that I could become diabetic but I did, and all of the diabetic type ones I know personally have no trace of it in their families either.
Best wishes to all of you considering having children to those of you with children