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I used to try to make something Neil could have for birthdays or desserts, but he eventually asked me not to bother any more. He can't take any kind of sugar or sweetener, or fruit, or most veg, or indeed, anything with more than a bare minimum of fibre in it. I used to drive myself crazy trying to find something he could eat. Shame, because he really likes all kinds of food, especially creamy, milky things. Alistair on the other hand could eat just about anything, but doesn't like sweet, creamy, milky, buttery things, so limits what he eats to well flavoured savoury things.
 
Good luck for the Covid jab @Annb
And more good wishes for you to see a decent dietician who can genuinely help you
 
Maybe most of our longings for our treats or sweet treats etc come from past memories.
Maybe for comfort, maybe for a good memory, and so on.
My longings for cooked breakfasts are when Grandma cooked them on the farm in the black leaded ovens, when I lived on the farm as a child.
My longings for the afternoon tea @dunelm mentioned earlier are again precious memories of the the 4pm afternoon tea everyday except Sunday. Many different sandwiches. The pork was from our pigs. Grandma made jams. Grandma baked her own bread. Several home baked cakes. My favourite being buttercream Victoria sponge with her jam in.
And similarly for Sunday roast. Grandma would wring the chicken's neck and pluck the feathers out on the doorstep, the wind taking the feathers. I chose the chicken to meet its demise. Vegetables were all from the vegetable garden, which I also helped with.
Eggs were from the hens. I collected those.

And so on.

The sugar industry has a lot to answer for getting us addicted to sweet stuff and making it an 'essential' part of our diet. I have been addicted long enough to it, but I cannot stand the smell of manufactured sweets or manufactured cakes any more, so I don't long for them now. And I also know if I have one bite of a manufactured biscuit, I will reach for another, there is something addictive in it.

But I still long for something nice, but from honest to goodness ingredients.

I have been experimenting with some ideas. Not carried them out yet. But they include using something where you can plug it into cigarette lighter in the car (which I already have, and it works well, I can put cold food, from fridge, and it heats up cold food in 30 to 40 minutes), and it will keep hot cooked food, or you can heat up previously cooked food. This will satisfy my need to drive somewhere, have something very decent to eat, and enjoy my day out.

I would like to support initiatives like 'too good to go', and local cafes, but given my food problems and reactions to foods, and being diabetic, I cannot risk that any more.

Could you not make your own sweet treat, based on what you fancy, and not relying on others, whether manufacturers or JKP? Forget conventional recipes, make something up of your own.
 
To be fair sweet things aren't enough of a miss to make it worthwhile. Dark chocolate bars and these with my single daily coffee are enough. Sweet food or dessert were never my thing. Your childhood sounds idyllic and explains your love of wildlife and growing things,
 
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I was only at the farm so much because my mother who brought me up couldn't cope with me, and so she left me there. And I was left completely to my own devices. It was idyllic for a child like me.

I do like being surrounded by greenery (my overgrown garden), I am not a townie even though I live in a town. This is the nearest I will get to the countryside. And the wildlife visits me!

And I have found an advantage to that high wood fence that AH neighbour who wrecked the bird nests when he illegally cut down my trees last year to build his Fort Knox Fence. Brambles now grow all along my side of the fence, front and back. I now get the most luscious tasty blackberries. I have figured out how to make sugar free jam in my Remoska. So I am baking the fruit, in tin foil containers, and I put foil on the top, so it doesn't burn, because the heat source is in the lid of the Remoska. So, it is 100% pure fruit, no sugar or any other ingredients. But I can add lemon juice. It will last about 2 weeks in the fridge. And I make it in very small batches

Time I did some work today...
 
Oh dear. Very well meaning of course and such a pity it can’t be passed forward to someone else. Probably not acceptable to a food bank.
 
Beautiful hedge garlic art. Take care not to get too stressed out, breathe - you already know that.
 
Thank you @ianpspurs. I have reserved a couple of small pork pies from our butcher and also scones from the bakery - they will be gone by 10am if I don’t order in advance. Found one of those tiny glass pots of DuerrJam in home Bargains this morning for Mrs Miggins and possibly a neighbor.
 
Lots of electric lunch boxes and portable food heaters around - search on Amazon to get some ideas.
 
have a great family weekend. (I genuinely don't find Aldi cheaper than Ocado even if they had the same range.
We don't shop with Ocado and didn't realise their prices were the same. We used to shop at Tesco and Aldi are a lot cheaper than Tesco. We still get our Yeo Valley organic milk and Greek yoghurt from Tesco as Aldi don't stock it.
 
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