Good news for you @Annb. Even at the time I was calm and saw it as God's will. Dad would have been inconsolable thinking he had let mum down if she had died first. In another plot twist my uncle was heavily involved in the local Baptist church and pulled some strings to make things work as I wanted. Almost a year to the day he died and is buried beside my parents. I obviously saw his grave this morning as I always do but just a little more moving today. @gennepher thanks. I had the words inseparable in life, inseparable in death engraved on the headstone. It is always a healing thought reading that.They are ashore and waiting at the ferry terminal for their lift! Brilliant.
Hug for your today Ian. That must have been such a shock for you. My prayers are with you, as always. Nothing will change what has happened, but maybe some strength to bear the unbearable will come to you.
Smashing effect. Very delicate.Fbg 7.6
At long last!
I will just keep doing what I am doing...
Wildlife nighttime videos.
Cat, Midnight, in bad mood with Fox & Badger all through the night
Cat Midnight is defending the wrong place, he should be guarding the new cat flap, not outside on the swing so zealously. The tin foil bowl of wet food, and the tin foil bowl of dry food had completely gone. Not just the contents, the whole bowl as well. Cats don't carry whole bowls of food away. Not one bowl was spilt between where they were picked up nor when the animal negotiated the small cat flap (I had installed a small cat flap to deter woodland creatures...). And outside the kitchen door, there was no sign of these tin foil bowls. Who or what? I think something has a growing family to feed. But who would be cunning enough?
Finally I closed my mouth, my jaw had dropped seeing this.
I need a new trail camera...or two. One on the swing doesn't always work properly.
Midnight is still guarding the dry cat biscuit food supply on the swing. The stray cats are allowed a small feed each, and then he narrows his eyes as if to say enough, leave now. I can see all this from my bed...
Oh dear, black cat Amy has just come into my bedroom, jumped on my bed. First time she has done that. She is very light footed, unlike Midnight who's power in his paws leaves bruises on my legs.
She wanted me to follow her into the kitchen, so I did. But it wasn't food she wanted. It was as if she wanted me to see her guard the inside of the cat flap. It's like she's set herself as the guardian of the inside of the cat flap...
I smell trouble ahead. I left her to it...
They are cats, let them slug it out. Midnight has brute force, Amy has cunning. She is a fraction of the size of that Puma like Midnight, but she is not scared of him.
The animal soap opera continues...
Creative, was of my clematis flower, but although it was a lovely beautiful delicate painting, and I liked it very much, but I decided to work on it with the same technique as I did with those latter ghost lighthouses, and I am absolutely delighted with the result. Why am I so delighted? It reminds me of the paintings on cotton black velvet I used to do. And I always loved doing these. I need to track down some more cotton velvet..
I have a problem, I need at least 7 of me to do everything I want to do in a day...
I need a nap and a cuppa...or rather cuppa then a nap.
Changed my mind, making a coffee with double cream...
No one told me it was a bank holiday today...but what difference does it make to my life? Absolutely pouring out there. I have a four inch paddling pool outside my bedroom door...or rather a 4 inch moat...it'll drain away as soon as the rain stops...no sandbags needed...
Have your best day...
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Very poignant indeed and a time to reflect. Thoughts are with you. Take care.Morning all on a poignant day for me. The dambusters was so important to me on Saturday as dad loved that story, he did his NS in the RAF. Ten years ago today both my parents died - dad was a shock. Both seemed normal when I visited as usual the previous evening. Mum's carer couldn't get in so phoned police. They gently prized open the patio doors and found him dead in bed. She was taken to the local hospital by ambulance but by the time I had travelled to thier house, finished with legal business and got to the hospital she had also died. Doctors ushered me into a room so it was obvious Parents (and mine at the time) doctor was convinced mum had consciously decided to join him. He could see no reason for her to die from his latest visit. Difficult having MIL here and not thinking wish they were here. Whole armour of God needed but I'm only human and as Leonard Cohen says there is crack in everything (man made). A day that will always remind me that things can change in a (lack of a) heart beat. I took early retirement as soon as possible. So, an early start and drive out to their grave. Wet grass, beautiful sunshine, memories. Interestingly, I met a man who had been a professional boxer, excellent cricketer (played with dad, myself and my son) and footballer now shuffling along with a walking stick - very sobering. Son and grandchildren will be round later plus I will have my coronation quiche - salmon and asparagus, obs. @gennepher great news on the lower fbg and thanks for the creative. @Annb I hope your brother manages to see you.
Thanks. There is/was some humour. I drink a lot of tea but that day even I thought just how much tea do these people think I can drink?. Informed family personally as in a small village, tight links to so many longstanding families, police cars and undertakers soon set tongues wagging, rumours spread and later accusations of having to find out from someone else. Forgot to thank you for sharing the art.Very poignant indeed and a time to reflect. Thoughts are with you. Take care.
Yes, that is definitely a healing thought. What lovely words to have had engraved on their headstone.I had the words inseparable in life, inseparable in death engraved on the headstone. It is always a healing thought reading that.
Brilliant news @gennepherFbg 7.6
At long last!
I will just keep doing what I am doing...
Such a shock for you.Ten years ago today both my parents died - dad was a shock. Both seemed normal when I visited as usual the previous evening. Mum's carer couldn't get in so phoned police. They gently prized open the patio doors and found him dead in bed. She was taken to the local hospital by ambulance but by the time I had travelled to thier house, finished with legal business and got to the hospital she had also died. Doctors ushered me into a room so it was obvious Parents (and mine at the time) doctor was convinced mum had consciously decided to join him. He could see no reason for her to die from his latest visit
Best wishes for a restful night's sleep & a better day tomorrow.BG has been mad today. Despite eating some carbs I had a long lasting and serious hypo. Back to normal now but very tired and need my bed. Night all. Sweet dreams.
How marvellous to share such moments with the grandchildren.Wonderful time with daughter and family over the weekend. We had a lovely day at Melsop Farm Park yesterday. The grandchildren loved bottle feeding the lambs and meeting all the other animals and birds. Sadly they went home today. The house is so quiet now.
Brother and SIL got here around 11.30 so we had 31/2 hours together. It was wonderful to see them. Brother is not as steady on his feet as he would have had me believe on the phone, but he's still looking pretty good considering. He really could have done with a walking stick, but the crew on tghe ship weren't allowing anyone with any walking problems, get onto the tender (too choppy and unsteady) so he left his stick behind and managed without.Morning all on a wet start to take the bunting down day here - ours went down yesterday. Four year old granddaughter took the flag for her Coronation memory box. Sorry if I overshared yesterday - a unique set if circumstances this year and I've been given a mind to reflect on things (boys does it do that) - but thanks for the kind comments. Today a new Swipey will arrive (why 2 sms voice messages?) - so a few trials of recipes from a new book can begin. JKP likes Moussaka (9 gms carb per portion) so that is one for sure. After the reflections of yesterday we have our youngest grandchild twice this week, today and Thursday. Two school collections for his two cousins today and tomorrow. Nice counterpoint If the weather is as wet as promised this may well be no mow May by default. @gennepher I hope the normal normal returns. @Annb hug for the hypo but I hope your brother made it and you had a wonderful catchup.
Anywhere you can take a photo of?8.2 yesterday 9.0 this morning. Have to confess that on Sunday I had 3 milk chocolate truffles and a tiny bit of ice cream. Monday I was good with the carbs but just tattoo much food. Back on the straight and narrow today.
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