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Very fraught and hectic @SlimLizzy03.09
8.45 FBG 6.5
By 10am 6.4. Poor night sleep maybe.
Been absent for about a week.
FBG when taken mostly in the fives. Skimmed through the posts.
Update on our situation.
MrSlim is recovering slowly from his fall, but has gone to help a friend with the roof on his kitchen extension. Can't remember if I mentioned it before, but our friend had a neighbour helping him previously. However the poor man managed to fall off the single storey building, unfortunately our friend wasn't there, had gone to fetch something and arrived back to find him unmoving in a pool of blood. Thought he was dead. Head wound.
Paramedics called, then air ambulance, police attend as a matter of course. No idea why. The neighbour (J ) is flown to hospital, emergency operation, coma, takes days to come round. While J is unconscious we are also worrying about our friend. Will J's family sue? What if J dies?
Meanwhile a French friend gives our friend the bad news. Even though he wasnt paying J for his help he is apparently an employer and so should have had insurance. He doesnt. Its possible that our friend could be liable for all J's medical costs. Including paramedics, air ambulance, days in intensive care, ongoing hospital care and so on. It will be thousands, if not tens of thousands. Our friend is now not only traumatised by finding J after the fall, but also fearing he will be forced to sell his house to meet the medical expenses and will end up bankrupt. Homeless.
A couple of days later J's son and daughter fly out. After more than a week unconscious, J is now semi consious. Incoherent, it looks as if he has serious brain damage. His family are not thinking of legal action at this point.
As J makes a gradual recovery his children are trying to find a place in the UK where he can be cared for.
This is also the best thing for our friend. J will no longer be racking up medical bills in France.
MrSlim is helping to put the roof on the same kitchen extension... He says we will need the goodwill when we go to UK. Perhaps our friend will cut the grass?
I am thinking we have 3 month contract with Immoblier and maybe we should take the house off the market if no sale by then. Except MrSlim showed me a listing for a townhouse. Am not sure how serious he is but for me it seems the ideal location. Right on the edge of a nearby town, with a large nearly private garden. Allotments at the back. Area seems quiet. We went and looked at the outside. Both of us like it. Really its too big, but has been used as offices, so is divided into three units. Could we let one out? I love the location. Quiet street. Walking distance to town. Countryside views from the back.
We have not asked to view... without a firm offer on this house, it would be too disappointing if we really wanted it and it sold before we could offer for it.
MrSlim thinks he could live there...am certain I could.
So far half a dozen viewings of our house, but no second viewings.
There doesn't seem to be much I could do at my daughter's house, just yet. MrSlim is proposing to take the car and trailer, while i stay here to keep it all going. Hopefully to get a sale.
Last time I was alone here it was in the first lockdown, in early summer. I was much fitter then.
Selfishly I don't want to go and be more or less useless. Babysitting on Fridays is the only suggestion at the moment. We have no idea what kind of makeshift accommodation we would have. A caravan seems likely. Its coming on to winter...
But I also don't want to be left here without a car. Beholden to friends and neighbours for every little bit of shopping and other needs. There is also Kiki to consider. I don't think she would adapt well to living in a very small space, or a busy town environment. My daughters house is opposite a school. There is a lot of traffic.
If the house sells we could be moved in two months. That's apparently the norm here.
MrSlim has booked a flexible ticket for next Tuesday. He is proposing to come and fetch me (+ kiki) in about six weeks when Son2 will be getting married to his American girlfriend who arrived in UK yesterday? Or is still on the way? Time to check Facebook.
This is all subject to change after discussion with SIL tonight.
Take some time out for you...