*I live on my own, so I generally don't have people around to upset me in what I am eating or try persuade me to their way of eating.In search of some data really but IMHO very much tied up with this thread. How many of you good folk a) plan your menu each day and b) if you do is it based on carb count or using a tool/app to analyse vitamins, nutrients, cals in and out or c) just what you like to eat that is LC? Is there a poll tool on this forum as I would be very interested in this data. TIA and please feel free to ignore me.
Today is my mums birthday 5 years since she left us sending hugs debs xx6.1 again. Too much low carb moussaka too late in the day. Another late dinner at gone 8pm not helping my fbs. Needed to get car loaded with rubbish and waited for hubby to come home from work. Hate eating then doing jobs.
Just sharing my social media post.
Today would have been my dad's 90th birthday. I just wanted to post something in memory of this lovely man.
My dad passed away suddenly at the age of 54. A massive heart attack. He was on the list for a heart op. The letter confirming his op date came too late sadly, a few weeks after his demise.
While he was alive my dad struggled with his health both physically and mentally. My mum and dad went through some very hard times. I don't think a lot was understood back then about mental health and there was definitely a stigma attached to it. They struggled along much of the time but got through.
My dad had a hard childhood, evacuated to Blackpool in the war from Salford. I do think this had something to do with his wellbeing later in life and that's what the psychiatrist at the time said. Events can have a massive effect. Mum and dad didn't have a lot of money either which in itself brings worries. Dad was often out of work. I feel very sad when I think about that. But then I think about the happy times. Mum and dad laughed a lot (when dad was well). They enjoyed a game of bingo together. They rarely won. Just before my 21st birthday, when they told me they couldn't afford a party for me (which I was absolutely fine with) they won £50. Now back then that was a lot of money. I remember them coming home and throwing all the money up in the air and dancing on it. What a joyous moment that was. And do you know what dad said. 'This is for your party'. They went out and bought booze. Lots of booze. Set up a table in the corner of our living room. He had a 'head barman' sign around his neck and we partied into the early hours with all my friends. The photo attached is the last photo I have with dad, from my 21st birthday. That was the 6th June. He passed away suddenly on 6th September the same year .
He was a very loving man. He was a great dad. And I think about him often. I wish he could have met my amazing hubby and seen his wonderful 2 grandchildren and shared all their life experiences. How proud he would be. And to see my daughter so happy with her wife. And then there's our grandaughter . She has brought incredible joy. I'm absolutely positive she could have swept all his cares and troubles away.
So today is the day we all say happy 90th dad. Hope you and mum have a great day celebrating . thinking of you.
Very helpful and thanks for taking the time. How are the eyes today?*I live on my own, so I generally don't have people around to upset me in what I am eating or try persuade me to their way of eating.
*I don't count my carbs particularly daily, although I have tried to reduce my carbs bit by bit all last year, and this year I have gone lower carb.
*At home, obviously on my own, so I can choose what I eat.
- on wakening it is black coffee and dark chocolate (I have no idea how a small amount of dark chocolate lowers my blood sugar but it does)
- Breakfast is usually eggs and cheese
- 1st meal of the day is meat and a coleslaw of some sort (at the moment, a short while ago it was cooked veg, but I started to feel sick after the cooked veg)
- 2nd meal of the day (if I get that far, I don't always have this, just depends on my day) will be something similar to first meal)
- I may have fruit in a tin or fresh fruit with flaxseed and blitzed seeds and double cream instead of 1st meal
* If I am out for the day, and yesterday when I was at the hospital was the first day I truly planned what I could eat/snack on all day, which was boiled eggs, cheese&babybels, pork scratchings. I did buy some punnets of fruits at the hospital farm shop, and despite polishing off 2 punnets myself my blood sugars didn't appear to rise. This idea worked, and I will do this again.
*I meet a friend once a fortnight for a meal, and I am unhappy with the meal we eat. She is trying to persuade me to eat stuff on the plate which I intend leaving (which I admit I fancy) and I succumb and regret it. Next time I am going to google the menu before we go and I will fix in my mind what I can order and what I will eat, and I will adhere to it.
* I don't count calories in and out. Not at the moment. But I have had various apps on my phone, and the only one I still have is Carbs&Cals. I have counted calories in the past, but currently I have enough other health problems which I am trying to keep track of, that calories is not my concern at this precise moment. I still check the Carbs in that app from time to time if I have no printed info.
*I don't analyse vitamins and nutrients of the food I eat, but I do research it, and have a friend who sends me more links than I can possibly read daily.
This is basically a project in progress. It will change and food will change as I find out new stuff, and as my needs change.
I hope this is of some use to you.
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Very helpful and thanks for taking the time. How are the eyes today?
I am glad it was of some help.
A bit blurry. A little bit of headache on right side.
Yet everything is also in more detail (I was told it wouldn't improve my sight as such, it was just for pressure).
I have to hold my phone and tablet at a different angle to read, bit awkward.
I have ghosting of images (or will that settle? Or will my brain learn to ignore it?)
Also intense glare depending on shininess, is like a white sun with radiating lines. Weird.
None of this is dealt with in leaflet I have from hospital.
Questions questions, so, I will be googling today to see what others experienced from this same procedure. I do have appointment in 6 weeks time, and if I am still bothered on Monday I will be asking for an appointment with my optometrist to see what he says.
A coffee with cinnamon and cream is now called for, and a wee bit more dark chocolate.
Have a good day.
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I had a Nokia 3350. Everything has gone downhill since then.
I don't need a smartphone. I have a max techy home office. But I do have an Android, after all, wouldn't want to be a victim of FOMO.
5.7 this morning. I woke in time to see the full moon, round and orange "like a big pizza pie" just before it set. It's the only thing I could see clearly with these new glasses. They're going back on Monday.
Gosh, I just read your post and it sounds like you are going through even worse stuff than I am with my new glasses. Virtual hugs.
Do you analyse that at all and if so anything beyond carbs? PM an answer if that is more private. I am interested for myself as I think there are minerals and vitamins missing from how I follow this WOE that once incorporated via diet would make me much happier and healthier.
Thank you for my hugs. They are welcome.
I suppose it will take some time. And like glasses, everyone is different, especially with varifocals. Is that what you have?
Maybe for my eyes this changes and adjusts a bit? Maybe my brain needs to adjust a bit? Or maybe it needs addressing again. I have no idea. But I can see. Just not quite the same way it was before.
Hope your glasses get sorted quickly.
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A little Nokia was my first cell phone and I loved it. Not only did it have good games and allow me to compose my own ringtones, it actually functioned quickly and efficiently as a phone! lol
Thanks for the reply . FBG was what it was - taken much closer to previous (last 4 yrs) times. Specifically, I find it hard to get 3 minerals up to rda even knowing foods high in these. By now I don't need carbs but it appears I may need more calories. My cals rarely reach 2k. and the scales back up my app (chronometer) in showing I am in deficit. Plugging that gap is an issue right now - I don't need to lose weight - lost 2 kgs since Good Friday.I don’t analyse but the Carbs&Cs app I use gives me calories, fibre fat etc. Calories, when I look are often very high ( can go to 3,000) which is probably why I’ve put on a few pounds since Christmas. I’m trying to cut down on the dairy to sort it out. I rarely look at the daily carbs now either though and often forget to put any of my meals in
I don’t want to do more analysis as I think the temptation for me would be to over obsess and could take the joy out of eating. I’d rather have more of a French or Med attitude to meals and enjoy them for their own sake, not because its medicine.
I can’t think of anything that’s missing from my diet - I eat oily fish at least 3x a week, organic red meat when I can ( but not every day) handul of tree nuts most days, lots of olive oil, eggs, loads of leafy greens and other veg and a bit of high percent chocolate most days.
When I first started this woe I did look into vitamin and mineral requirements quite closely as I didn’t really believe I could be healthy without fruit, but I couldn’t find anything that fruit contains that I can’t get from one or other type of veg.
For me variety is they key, to make sure I don’t inadvertently lack something and now I just want to enjoy finding nice ways to eat lovely fresh food.
When I think back to years gone by and how miserable I was on Weight watchers, counting cals, sat fat, points etc I am very happy to have very simple rules to live by now.
Sorry I’ve gone on a bit. I hope you find a way that suits you what do you miss in this woe?
Ps great fbg this morning.
Is there a poll tool on this forum as I would be very interested in this data.
I have read about our brains needing to adjust in cases like this. Which is a weird thing for opticians to say, IMO. If the vision machine thingy in the optometrist's office makes our vision better right then and there, why should the glasses made to the same prescription not make our vision better the moment we put them on? We didn't have to "adjust" to the machine in the doctor's office.
Are varifocals like bifocals? These are bifocals, not the progressive kind, because the voucher did not cover progressive lenses. I have also heard of trifocals.
I am sitting here right now wearing my old glasses (20-odd years old) and seeing much better than I could with the new ones, which look a lot better (they are in much better shape) but I can't see anything through them. I only wanted to replace these because the frame is barely held together and because I would really like some lenses for reading.
Right back at ya Karen xxToday is my mums birthday 5 years since she left us sending hugs debs xx
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