Debandez
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6.1 again. Too much low carb moussaka too late in the day. Another late dinner at gone 8pm not helping my fbs. Needed to get car loaded with rubbish and waited for hubby to come home from work. Hate eating then doing jobs.
Just sharing my social media post.
Today would have been my dad's 90th birthday. I just wanted to post something in memory of this lovely man.
My dad passed away suddenly at the age of 54. A massive heart attack. He was on the list for a heart op. The letter confirming his op date came too late sadly, a few weeks after his demise.
While he was alive my dad struggled with his health both physically and mentally. My mum and dad went through some very hard times. I don't think a lot was understood back then about mental health and there was definitely a stigma attached to it. They struggled along much of the time but got through.
My dad had a hard childhood, evacuated to Blackpool in the war from Salford. I do think this had something to do with his wellbeing later in life and that's what the psychiatrist at the time said. Events can have a massive effect. Mum and dad didn't have a lot of money either which in itself brings worries. Dad was often out of work. I feel very sad when I think about that. But then I think about the happy times. Mum and dad laughed a lot (when dad was well). They enjoyed a game of bingo together. They rarely won. Just before my 21st birthday, when they told me they couldn't afford a party for me (which I was absolutely fine with) they won £50. Now back then that was a lot of money. I remember them coming home and throwing all the money up in the air and dancing on it. What a joyous moment that was. And do you know what dad said. 'This is for your party'. They went out and bought booze. Lots of booze. Set up a table in the corner of our living room. He had a 'head barman' sign around his neck and we partied into the early hours with all my friends. The photo attached is the last photo I have with dad, from my 21st birthday. That was the 6th June. He passed away suddenly on 6th September the same year .
He was a very loving man. He was a great dad. And I think about him often. I wish he could have met my amazing hubby and seen his wonderful 2 grandchildren and shared all their life experiences. How proud he would be. And to see my daughter so happy with her wife. And then there's our grandaughter . She has brought incredible joy. I'm absolutely positive she could have swept all his cares and troubles away.
So today is the day we all say happy 90th dad. Hope you and mum have a great day celebrating . thinking of you.
Just sharing my social media post.
Today would have been my dad's 90th birthday. I just wanted to post something in memory of this lovely man.
My dad passed away suddenly at the age of 54. A massive heart attack. He was on the list for a heart op. The letter confirming his op date came too late sadly, a few weeks after his demise.
While he was alive my dad struggled with his health both physically and mentally. My mum and dad went through some very hard times. I don't think a lot was understood back then about mental health and there was definitely a stigma attached to it. They struggled along much of the time but got through.
My dad had a hard childhood, evacuated to Blackpool in the war from Salford. I do think this had something to do with his wellbeing later in life and that's what the psychiatrist at the time said. Events can have a massive effect. Mum and dad didn't have a lot of money either which in itself brings worries. Dad was often out of work. I feel very sad when I think about that. But then I think about the happy times. Mum and dad laughed a lot (when dad was well). They enjoyed a game of bingo together. They rarely won. Just before my 21st birthday, when they told me they couldn't afford a party for me (which I was absolutely fine with) they won £50. Now back then that was a lot of money. I remember them coming home and throwing all the money up in the air and dancing on it. What a joyous moment that was. And do you know what dad said. 'This is for your party'. They went out and bought booze. Lots of booze. Set up a table in the corner of our living room. He had a 'head barman' sign around his neck and we partied into the early hours with all my friends. The photo attached is the last photo I have with dad, from my 21st birthday. That was the 6th June. He passed away suddenly on 6th September the same year .
He was a very loving man. He was a great dad. And I think about him often. I wish he could have met my amazing hubby and seen his wonderful 2 grandchildren and shared all their life experiences. How proud he would be. And to see my daughter so happy with her wife. And then there's our grandaughter . She has brought incredible joy. I'm absolutely positive she could have swept all his cares and troubles away.
So today is the day we all say happy 90th dad. Hope you and mum have a great day celebrating . thinking of you.