You are very right
@ickihun and my comments were a bit harsh - I've been told off before (not by you) for this. I do completely understand depression, my partner struggles with it and has had very very dark times that I have helped him through. I'm hoping that as people want to come on this course they must 'deep down' be interested in their health. All I want is for people to get better and realise it isn't quite as bleak as it appears, but control needs them to be responsible.
I must learn to be more accepting - and realise that we all deal with issues differently, I'm a very much 'get on with it' type but many others aren't. I'll just hope my enthusiasm wears off on some of the others