Afternoon, you lovely people.
an FBg of not quite good, not quite bad
very much Goldilocks land of 6.1
Breakfast 2 poached eggs, low carb bread and some low salt/sugar Baked beans
replenished the beast with in, for a short while.
health wise feel GOOD.
Breaking out of the holding pattern of late.
Been out and about a lot more of late.
Yesterday cemetery with Niece.
we SD and did the elbow greet.
felt odd, but nice to see she was physically ok
So off we went.
sat in car diagonal front N rear.
her mum & dad first for flower laying.
a gentle moment, a time to reflect and a leisurely walk around the gardens
then to the cemetery next door to my Mum & dads grave , her gran & granddad
a little flower arranging, and a moment of silence each,,,a nice moment.
then a little chat while standing graveside, and the cracks showed,
her eyes brimmed and the sobs came and any will i had to keep strict SD, melted.
A gentle hug, much missed over 3 months, seemed to set us both back to a more normal time,
when the closeness & love of family was a given.
A sad moment indeed, but when shared with those who KNEW the loss,
a moment to treasure.
We had a sedate day, no rush, so when caught in traffic, just observed how normal it all looks in London
The journey took us through Barnes, by the river.
PACKED with drinkers, supping ale from the pub opposite doing a roaring trade in Takeaway (to the riverside, drain & repeat)..a touch concerned, for sure but in all honesty.... would i have joined them, and kept MY SD going..maybe.
Back to hers and the attention of her 4 cats for a cuppa.
an easy chat, many thanks both sides for the day.
Ps. SD went well all day, until we spotted this cow who seemed to think she owned the whole pavement...

