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Dear friends, I can't have you missing out on the latest food trends from TikTok. Date bark - which would be a gigantic faux pas in freshers week month(s) - appeals to me. Medjool obs. I'm not a barbarian. This may well be sponsored by the date producers association but is interesting.
Oh no! Not chopped sandwiches! Whatever next. Mind you, we do have a Tamagoyaki square omelette pan and enjoy Rolled omelettes
 
6.7 this very damp, rainy morning, ponds have established themselves in the garden.
I was once again at a loss in how to cope with aftereffects of counselling and Mrs L, reminding me (she never!) That because I had need for a cuppa and a change of clothes, that I couldn't and best get my fat behind to the shops, because she fancied another (not had one) some cake. I was caught between saying yes, later. And being annoyed and frustrated, that I needed reflection time, to get my thinking straight, but Mrs L insisted.
It isn't the actual going, but the lack of consideration of Mrs L, to how I am trying my utmost to help her unreservedly. I am aware, Mrs L has not the awareness of my issues. But it is so frustrating that, it seems that I have to be at her beck and call 24/7. And I have to put aside my needs to one side until, I can get some solace, but it never goes away. It is permanently stuck there, that I know, I'm not ready, not trained, uncertain, scared, , completely out of my depth.
I only have a couple of waking hours a day, for myself. I have actually took a couple of hours writing this.
I don't know what the future holds, my anxiety is showing, I apologise, I don't have the tools to do what I need, no confidence at all. I have again asked my surgery for help, my counsellor is understandable and giving ideas and helping with my thought process.
Family have answered and aware, but they're busy and working, have their kids. And their lives!
I'm in despair about my frustration, turning to anger, turning to rage, and losing control! How can I stop it happening?
I have to go, Mrs L demands my presence, going to hairdressers. A new head for her!
Thanks for allowing my post. I apologise again for my thoughts and issues.

Chores done, shops to go to, exercising ignored!

My best wishes to you all as always.
Don’t apologise. Writing it all down and throw it out into the world. It may help you get it off your chest.
 
6.7 this very damp, rainy morning, ponds have established themselves in the garden.
I was once again at a loss in how to cope with aftereffects of counselling and Mrs L, reminding me (she never!) That because I had need for a cuppa and a change of clothes, that I couldn't and best get my fat behind to the shops, because she fancied another (not had one) some cake. I was caught between saying yes, later. And being annoyed and frustrated, that I needed reflection time, to get my thinking straight, but Mrs L insisted.
It isn't the actual going, but the lack of consideration of Mrs L, to how I am trying my utmost to help her unreservedly. I am aware, Mrs L has not the awareness of my issues. But it is so frustrating that, it seems that I have to be at her beck and call 24/7. And I have to put aside my needs to one side until, I can get some solace, but it never goes away. It is permanently stuck there, that I know, I'm not ready, not trained, uncertain, scared, , completely out of my depth.
I only have a couple of waking hours a day, for myself. I have actually took a couple of hours writing this.
I don't know what the future holds, my anxiety is showing, I apologise, I don't have the tools to do what I need, no confidence at all. I have again asked my surgery for help, my counsellor is understandable and giving ideas and helping with my thought process.
Family have answered and aware, but they're busy and working, have their kids. And their lives!
I'm in despair about my frustration, turning to anger, turning to rage, and losing control! How can I stop it happening?
I have to go, Mrs L demands my presence, going to hairdressers. A new head for her!
Thanks for allowing my post. I apologise again for my thoughts and issues.

Chores done, shops to go to, exercising ignored!

My best wishes to you all as always.
Dementia is an awful thing. It is far worse for the carer than for the sufferer because the sufferer is not really aware of the effects of what they are doing nor aware that they have said the same thing or asked the same question many times before. The strain can be massive on those who care for dementia patients. Then, eventually, very often that sufferer doesn't even remember their carer or trust them, never mind the years that have bound them together or the common interests they once had. It is hard to be dismissed from a loved one's life.

Talking, or writing about the distress it all causes, is healing and not something to be shy or embarrassed about. Of course, you should write about these things to your friends here. Some of us have been unfortunate enough to have been there already and some of us may yet have that to come. We can all support each other and we can learn from each other, so do keep on posting. All of us here are happy to be a sounding board for you.
 
Oh no! Not chopped sandwiches! Whatever next. Mind you, we do have a Tamagoyaki square omelette pan and enjoy Rolled omelettes
Chopped omelette - how woke is that? :D . Mind you, Diet Dr (and other lc/keto collections) gives the TikTok creations a run for their money in most folks (outside this silo) eyes'. Cabbage casserole anyone? What's that about people who live in glass houses?
 
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Oh no! Not chopped sandwiches! Whatever next. Mind you, we do have a Tamagoyaki square omelette pan and enjoy Rolled omelettes
I first made these kind of omelettes years ago, when Tom bought a square pan home from somewhere or other. I'm not convinced that they are better than ordinary omelettes nor worth the extra effort, but it does allow for some variety I guess.
 
One thing that I learned from all the tests and prodding I have had of late is I have an allergy to of all things birds and in particular budgerigars how could I live 73 years in ignorance of such a thing and how could they determine such a thing.
This is awful news - stay away from Australia and Florida - and pet shops.
 
I first made these kind of omelettes years ago, when Tom bought a square pan home from somewhere or other. I'm not convinced that they are better than ordinary omelettes nor worth the extra effort, but it does allow for some variety I guess.
They do have a different texture. I add a splash of milk to my eggs before beating - for true Japanese (and Korean) texture the eggs need beating for quite a while and then passing through a sieve. I quiet like making them as I find cooking quite meditative.
 
Chopped omelette - how woke is that? :D . Mind you, Diet Dr (and other lc/keto collections) gives the TikTok creations a run for their money in most folks (outside this silo) eyes'. Cabbage casserole anyone? What's that about people who live in glass houses?
Cabbage casserole - marvelous - and quite good for you. Lots of beard stroking pairing with a decent wine. Never mind there is always a glass of Poitín.
 
They do have a different texture. I add a splash of milk to my eggs before beating - for true Japanese (and Korean) texture the eggs need beating for quite a while and then passing through a sieve. I quiet like making them as I find cooking quite meditative.
I didn't do the bit about passing the eggs through a sieve. Maybe that would have improved them.
 
Cabbage casserole - marvelous - and quite good for you. Lots of beard stroking pairing with a decent wine. Never mind there is always a glass of Poitín.
Tom used to enjoy "Cabbage and Cheese" although I never really did. We had it quite often though. Haven't had it for years. These days I suspect it might cause me problems, as do other vegetables.
 
Cabbage casserole - marvelous - and quite good for you. Lots of beard stroking pairing with a decent wine. Never mind there is always a glass of Poitín.
Memories of A Level English there. The Playboy of the Western World. Krautfleckerl minus the noodles and with pork knuckle is a much better choice. A good pure pot still whiskey to aid digestion - maybe not this* one. This guy has just the job we two and Mr K could job share.
* as if free delivery matters at that price.
 
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They do have a different texture. I add a splash
Chopped omelette - how woke is that? :D . Mind you, Diet Dr (and other lc/keto collections) gives the TikTok creations a run for their money in most folks (outside this silo) eyes'. Cabbage casserole anyone? What's that about people who live in glass houses?
of milk to my eggs before beating - for true Japanese (and Korean) texture the eggs need beating for quite a while and then passing through a sieve. I quiet like making them as I find cooking quite meditative.
I like some grated mature cheddar in my omelettes before I mix them and get my olive oil warm.I turn the pan off and it stays hot enough with a ceramic hob to cook them both sides.
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