gennepher
Oracle
Like I harped on about the Specsavers optician lady @Lamont D that I saw on Monday who said I had cataracts, but yet she leaves me dangling and says I have to go back this coming Thursday for her to examine me. She could have done the examination she was going to do this coming Thursday there and then last Monday because I was still within my appointment time. I'll start harping on it again if I am not careful because obviously it is in my mind at the mo.I'm with the others.
If your comfortable & feel it's useful, then I'm more than happy to see you post how you feel.
My dad had similar with mum.
I saw how he tried to make light of what was clearly killing him.
I think dad kept a lot in, looking back...I wish he had had some outlet like this.
We all did what we could, but I'm pretty sure he held a lot back to protect the rest of the family.
Would have been nice to think he might have laid some of that heavy burden down, among similar folks to ourselves, without the worry he'd upset those closest to him.
What you say, is pretty much what he said.
Heartbreaking to hear it then, heartbreaking to hear it happening to someone else.
I don't have the words to make, what is clearly a hard road to travel, much easier, though I wish I did @Lamont D
I just hope some of the camaraderie on here, helps lighten a hard day, just that little bit .
And the unburdening when you feel able, affords you some badly needed relief, and the chance of a little second wind, to help you through the day .
Take care.
Now, I haven't told my daughter in Australia, which I would normally do if there was a more serious health problem, because she is literally thousands of miles away, cannot do anything about it, and no point in worrying her about it at this stage (or maybe at any stage in this) because she knows my eyes are important to me with lipreading they are my ears, so there's no point in me, giving her another worry. So instead, I mithered you lot about it to relieve my stress n it...and to shed off a burden helps, helps articulation, and at leaves my mind free to make any possible plans et cetera et cetera.
So you can mither us all as much as you like @Lamont D
We all need some outlet that is not our nearest and dearest, and this thread satisfies the need for that. The founder of this thread who all of us fondly remember, who were there from the start, was very careful to put the parameters in this thread, so that we could freely talk about and discuss just about anything...so thank you Harrison wherever you are now.
By the way my ex husband was a postie in Liverpool in Copperas Hill, when it was still there, so you can imagine jokes/pranks that got played...ex was just an innocent serious Welshman from Swansea with no concept of practical jokes...
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