I'm with the others.
If your comfortable & feel it's useful, then I'm more than happy to see you post how you feel.
My dad had similar with mum.
I saw how he tried to make light of what was clearly killing him.
I think dad kept a lot in, looking back...I wish he had had some outlet like this.
We all did what we could, but I'm pretty sure he held a lot back to protect the rest of the family.
Would have been nice to think he might have laid some of that heavy burden down, among similar folks to ourselves, without the worry he'd upset those closest to him.
What you say, is pretty much what he said.
Heartbreaking to hear it then, heartbreaking to hear it happening to someone else.
I don't have the words to make, what is clearly a hard road to travel, much easier, though I wish I did
@Lamont D
I just hope some of the camaraderie on here, helps lighten a hard day, just that little bit .
And the unburdening when you feel able, affords you some badly needed relief, and the chance of a little second wind, to help you through the day .
Take care.
Once again, I am grateful for your wisdom, O, wise one.
Cheers mate, considerate and thoughtful words, that actually do make a lot of sense.
My dad wouldn't discuss his feelings, or about his military service in Burma.
I knew he had nightmares, but the only outlet was others who shared similar circumstances.
Obviously, I could never imagine what it was like, but I do wish that he could have assured me, that he was coping. I did meet someone, that was in Burma, and of course I asked.
He said, imagine, the worst it could be, for you. Then imagine it being worse, then imagine it being hot and humid and wet and everything covered in slime. Then it you can imagine that. It's a lot more worse than that. Hungry, tired, sweating, insects, everything damp, but the worst was the fear. Then actually fighting the Japanese. You too would have nightmares! He then said afterwards. Your dad won't talk, majority of those who fought in Burma won't, so please don't ask. It would be too hard on him.
I am feeling more like myself today and in a better mood.
Thanks
@jjraak.
6.2 this freezing Friday, sorry, Mrs L hasn't caught up with how the days work.
Gotta find one of those daily calendars, you rip the date off, and place it on mantelpiece. It will help with the other post it notes littered around.
Chores and shopping done twice, cos Mrs L fancied a small tin loaf for toast, after I had already been for her and grandkids treats at the bakers.
No footie today.
But keeping an eye on results.
Was gonna start on outside lights, but after getting permission from Mrs L, it has been postponed till warmer climes occur, okay, midweek! Then chrimbo tree and her ornaments!
Mrs L having a nap, so I'm off to finish washing and start the cooking for tea.
Best wishes to you all as always.