Hi,
So glad i found this site!
12yr old daughter was a bit 'run down' the last few weeks - constant indigestion after eating to the point it was making her sick, oral thrush, dry mouth, peeing more than usual, constipated, lost weight, moodier than usual and her eczema was out of control plus she kept going a funny grey colour in her face - looking a bit bruised. GP gave meds to treat all 'illnesses' listed, but couldn't take bloods due to daughters 'rubbish' veins. She gave us a number for our childrens hospital to make an appt to get bloods taken to rule out anemia and diabetes, but didn't say she was concerned about this and sent us home with medicine and a poo testing kit - she refused to let my daughter take off her face mask to see the colour of her face too. When i finally got through to the hospital the nearest appt was 24/2/21. In the meantime daughter was taking meds for all the individual symptoms and we were doing all the usual parent stuff when your kid is ill - plenty water (ah thats why she's still peeing loads), loads of fresh fruit/veg/toast and tea (ah that's why she's lost a bit more weight, the change in diet), letting her rest loads (ah that's why she's not as hungry plus she's constipated so it seemed to make sense to us)....come Tuesday last week she still wasn't looking well and had been lethargic all day so took her to A&E as it just wasn't sitting right with me and just didn't feel right to wait til Feb for bloods. Within 30mins of triage I was told my wee girl was in DKA (had no idea what that was at that time) as her ketones were over 18, her bloods didn't read on the blood glucose machine, just said 'hi' so were told they were over 30 and she was severely dehydrated. Within the hour she was in the high dependency unit on all sorts of drips, insulin and having hourly blood glucose tests. The doctor said that she was dangerously ill and if she hadn't been brought to hospital she may have just went to sleep and not woke up.
We got home on Friday night as she has obv picked up great and we were given lots of training and education to help manage her condition. I'm feeling confident going forward in handling what's to come but I'm so anxious right now. I'm riddled with mum guilt that in trying to make her better we were effectively doing the opposite and I'm scared to sleep incase she doesn't wake up or something happens in the night. I'm so angry that the GP didn't think it was serious enough to send us to A&E that day and that I took her advice and ignored my instinct not to take her myself the same day. I'm angry that I waited nearly a week to take her myself whilst waiting for the medicines from the docs to kick in too. I guess I'm just wondering if this is normal and will it ease?
So glad i found this site!
12yr old daughter was a bit 'run down' the last few weeks - constant indigestion after eating to the point it was making her sick, oral thrush, dry mouth, peeing more than usual, constipated, lost weight, moodier than usual and her eczema was out of control plus she kept going a funny grey colour in her face - looking a bit bruised. GP gave meds to treat all 'illnesses' listed, but couldn't take bloods due to daughters 'rubbish' veins. She gave us a number for our childrens hospital to make an appt to get bloods taken to rule out anemia and diabetes, but didn't say she was concerned about this and sent us home with medicine and a poo testing kit - she refused to let my daughter take off her face mask to see the colour of her face too. When i finally got through to the hospital the nearest appt was 24/2/21. In the meantime daughter was taking meds for all the individual symptoms and we were doing all the usual parent stuff when your kid is ill - plenty water (ah thats why she's still peeing loads), loads of fresh fruit/veg/toast and tea (ah that's why she's lost a bit more weight, the change in diet), letting her rest loads (ah that's why she's not as hungry plus she's constipated so it seemed to make sense to us)....come Tuesday last week she still wasn't looking well and had been lethargic all day so took her to A&E as it just wasn't sitting right with me and just didn't feel right to wait til Feb for bloods. Within 30mins of triage I was told my wee girl was in DKA (had no idea what that was at that time) as her ketones were over 18, her bloods didn't read on the blood glucose machine, just said 'hi' so were told they were over 30 and she was severely dehydrated. Within the hour she was in the high dependency unit on all sorts of drips, insulin and having hourly blood glucose tests. The doctor said that she was dangerously ill and if she hadn't been brought to hospital she may have just went to sleep and not woke up.
We got home on Friday night as she has obv picked up great and we were given lots of training and education to help manage her condition. I'm feeling confident going forward in handling what's to come but I'm so anxious right now. I'm riddled with mum guilt that in trying to make her better we were effectively doing the opposite and I'm scared to sleep incase she doesn't wake up or something happens in the night. I'm so angry that the GP didn't think it was serious enough to send us to A&E that day and that I took her advice and ignored my instinct not to take her myself the same day. I'm angry that I waited nearly a week to take her myself whilst waiting for the medicines from the docs to kick in too. I guess I'm just wondering if this is normal and will it ease?