Hi @hankjam I meant to say last night, have you tried Scottish Autism they have a family worker and could send you information on Clannalba if you and your wife would be interested. We found them very very good, nothing was too much trouble and our lad seemed to enjoy it [most of the time]
In my experience it definitely is genetic -my late dad showed Aspergers symptoms, my younger brother and son have been diagnosed and even my older brother has symptoms as well. Unfortunately he is the most stubborn out of all of us so won't even entertain the idea of going to the doctor about it. Although my brothers and son fit the general profile of ASD they all show individual traits. My son also suffers from depression and anxiety, when he was younger we wondered if he had ADHD because his dad was hyperactive as a child. Apparently there is a link between autism and several other neurological disorders including ADHD and depressionGuys is their such a thing as mild asperges? The symptoms on Wikipedia describes my o/h on a bad day. GP has given him antidepressants which helps with depression and anxiety but we has gone from doing day to day duties to struggling to complete anything. He verbally lashes out in anger and frustration. Verbally communicating in a very negative confused way. He is constantly on edge and has in the past used alcohol to relax giving him more of a problem.
I have no experience with any autism or spectrums. Your posts are brilliant and they're educating me.
O/h has an autistic brother and his other brothers son is autistic too.
Is it in the genes? Or does it get triggered some how?
I'm sorry if I sound ignorant but I truely haven't any knowledge, til now of autism and it's make-up. :-(
Oh absolutely, that's why having friends who understand is so important. I count myself lucky, I can also talk to my mum any time about it. My younger brother suffered from depression when he was a teenager and even talked about suicide when he was bullied. Luckily he had counselling when he went to uni and was diagnosed with Aspergers so things got much easier after that. Mum and I love having our natters, we can ***** and moan about the boys as much as we want!What a shame, poor lad. I think the hardest thing is seeing your child suffer, I would rather suffer myself. It's so frustrating when you can't help them, I suppose this is when we just need to keep loving them and trying to keep calm. Love to you both x