Yeah I am quite impatient, I suppose I just want to get/do everything I need and get into a routine while I am free at the moment so it doesn’t become such a hurdle when I start uni and I’m juggling work, uni and diabetes at the same time. I just want everything to be done and over with so I don’t need to see my medical team so often and so my normal life isn’t impacted.
For example for the pump you need to do a 5 day DAFNE course between 9am to 5pm. That would mean I would eat into my annual paid holiday and miss uni days. I’m scheduled for an appointment every month sometimes twice a month which eats into around 1/2 of my paid holiday. Because I will miss uni days I will have to make up for it during the weekend which eats into my free time when I usually go to the gym or do extra work. If I got into a routine, got all the things I want like a pump then I wouldn’t need to sacrifice time that could be used for uni or work
My plan is to get everything sorted as soon as possible so I don’t have to worry about my diabetes too much in the future. I understand that it may be annoying for older people with diabetes to hear me because they’ve been doing it for years and a lot of the time they’ve been left in the dark with no technology to help them, I’m trying to make my life easy as soon as possible so it doesn’t impact anything non-diabetes. When is a better time to do it than now? I’m practically at home/holiday until September so I can change my lifestyle to make diabetes manageable and do the stuff I need to now rather than later when I have to worry about being a laboratory assistant and biology student
Those all seem like very noble aims, but in my experience of life, it rarely works out that way.
Again, from observation, T1 is a lifelong learning experience. Are you familiar with that glib, throwaway remark, "every day's a school day"? Well, that sums up T1 perfectly in my view. One certain thing in life is change, and T1 just brings another dimension to that,
In terms of appointments, you should not have to take annual leave for appointments. In UK, your employer should be allowing you appropriate time off for appointments, but they are not obliged to pay you for that. Oftne they will. Often they might ask you to make up the time later, but you should not be compelled to take leave.
For clarity "appropriate time off" would be a few ours, or half day, depending on the logistics of it all.
Perhaps a discussion to have with your Line manager or HR.
In terms of the DAFNE course. There have been numerous thread on here relating to that - whether it is 5 consecutive days, or 5 Mondays or whatever. These places are dealing with people in real life situations, juggling work, family, caring, and all manner of issues.
There are often options to do the course over maybe more, shorter sessions in the evenings, or flexed a bit more in terms of the span of the course. That would be something to discuss with your health care team.
As a Uni student, of course, you r term times will be busy, but then you will also have extended Vac time.
Most clinics run a number of courses a year. I'm not saying they will flex their timetable to suit you, but you also must open your mind as to how you can be flexible enough to make things work for both parties.
I totally sympathise with you that you will have this T1 with you for a long time, if not your lifetime, so really it is essential you learn to view life in more than small time chunks.
I reiterate, get good grips on your T1, then look for the icing on the cake. Pumping straight out, in honeymoon would be mind frying, along with starting Uni, time pressures of assignments/essays, perhaps living away from home, and maybe working alongside to help limit the financial bucket with a hole in it.
Relax a bit. You'll never be 18 again, and I doubt you'll ever have a time again when you have fewer responsibilities.
Enjoy life. We only pass this way one.