JoKalsbeek
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- Type of diabetes
- I reversed my Type 2
- Treatment type
- Diet only
Ooh, a bunch of things to touch on right here... Let's see... For one thing, you didn't do this to yourself. It's a genetic predisposition, not something you contracted by doing something wrong. You gained weight because you are genetically inclined to develop diabetes: You have a problem processing carbs back out, so they get stored, as glucose, in fat cells... After a while those fats cells are full, and the glucose shows up elsewhere, like in your blood, urine, saliva, tears etc... That's when you're classed diabetic. T2 runs in my family and I have an ovarian cyst causing more insulin resistance. I did everything I could do lose weight. (Like following the dietician's advice, which was the exact opposite of what I needed: low fat, high carb... I ballooned.). So, nope, this isn't on you, no matter which way you turn it. I don't want to be a diabetic either. But I am, for life now, so I deal with it. Not like I have much choice. I was a T2 for years before diagnosis. My liver was so fatty they thought it was one big tumor, so rather than worry about the T2, I was led to believe I was going to die in a few more weeks anyway. That was not a pleasant time in my life. I was so fatigued all the time I could barely get out of bed. Tired to the point of pain, all the time. Eyesight wasn't all that either. Obese, morbidly. All of that went away when I got my blood sugars under control. Liver, fatigue, eyesight, weight, all fixed. You don't want to get to the point I was at. Life really wasn't worth living.Wow you are all so helpful! Thank you!
I don't know what my bloods were before my breakfast as I hadn't found my meter. I have no real idea what the numbers should be or what a big or little rise is. When I found out I was diabetic it was via letter and once I got over the shock, I was in denile for a bit then eventually saw a diabetic nurse. She said I didn't need medication (not the same nurse as now) and if I ate healthy and lost weight it should reverse and she sent me on my way. I was only called in once I was pregnant and had to have insulin. I did my bloods and the machine told me how much insulin to take. I was told to stop after I gave birth. So I really don't know what I'm doing!! All I know is, is that I don't want diabetes and I'd love to loose 3 stone before my wedding, I will be my pre kids weight (my eldest is 11!!).
The peanut butter is no added sugar and 97% peanuts, then oil and salt, so in terms of other peanut butters, it's better! I don't have it often though. Nicole, I like the advice of changing one meal at a time, it feels more manageable and the chia pudding sounds nice. I will also keep testing too. As with regards to the metformin I'm not sure if I should have it or not. I already take antidepressants and a beta blocker to prevent migraines... I don't want to rattle... Also taking medication is admitting I've done this to myself and I find it hard to do that. If anyone has advice on if it will help then I will greatfully listen. The diabetic nurse gave me a leaflet on a different medication when I voiced concerns on side effects although said she would prescribe metformin . My argument was that I don't have side effects from my diabetes so why take medication that gives me side effects for a condition I don't have side effects for?! See I'm in denial
But I'm so glad I've found this community, it feels like a weights been lifted
No side effects of the condition? Not that you've noticed, anyway. You don't actually see or feel damage to kidneys, arteries, heart, nerve endings, liver, eyes etc until the damage is already extensive. Blood sugars over 8,5 sand away at just about everything. See it as ground glass in your veins. If you do not feel like you have negative effects from T2 now, then, good...! This is the time to prevent further damage, before it does become noticeable.
Metformin, well, it really does depend... I responded badly to it, but then, I respond badly to most medication. And while met can help you with the glucose your liver dumps, it won't do anything at all about what you eat. So if you don't change your diet, the metformin won't fix that for you. So it's something you could try, if you want to. But if you do, do combine it with a change in diet, because it's not a cure-all, alas.
Excellent peanut butter by the way. (I loved the stuff, good on celery sticks, but alas, it was a migraine trigger. Think of me the next time you have some and enjoy it.
I still am surprised that some people get their diagnosis through a letter... It's a life changing diagnosis and not something to just dump onto someone in a formal bit of writing. It is a diagnosis that triggers grief, and yes, denial, and with no guidance at all right at the start, which is sadly insanely common.... I can imagine you must've felt rather abandoned and scared. Diabetes is scary enough as it is, after all.... It takes a while to get a grip on it. For me, it's the only condition I have a say in. The migraines, rheumatism, hypothyroidism and whatnot just do as they please, but my blood sugars I have some control over. That I can practically micro-manage.
Well, my migraine meds are finally kicking in so I can go back to bed and sleep a little now.... But I do hope you'll keep coming back with more questions. That's part of breaking through the denial. It's progress. You'll get there.
Hugs,
Jo