... or so said a fellow-Diabetic at work, when I ranted about the insensitivity/stupidity of my manager for giving me a chocolate easter egg - and not a mini or cream egg, it was a normal size one, containing 780 calories and 92g of carbs!
But what kind of thought could have been in her head, that she thinks it would have been acceptable?
She knows I'm Diabetic, and at Christmas gave me a pretty bottle of hand cream instead of chocolate - yet today presented me with above-mentioned egg as if it were a pot of gold, then got upset when I said "No thank you, I'm struggling with my Diabetes at the moment so I'd better not" - and implored me to take it - which, reluctantly, I did, then as soon as she'd gone and I'd checked the ingredients label I offered it to a colleague who has 3 children - if I'd kept it on my desk the temptation to eat it would have been horrible, and my blood sugar levels would have rocketed.
Does this happen to others?
How do you deal with it?
Are a manager's feelings more important than my/your health?
I'm used to saying no when colleagues offer birthday cake etc, and no-one else has been upset or urged me to take a piece, they accept that I either can't or will only have a small piece, depending how I'm feeling - but how to deal with someone who gets upset when I politely say no - help!
But what kind of thought could have been in her head, that she thinks it would have been acceptable?
She knows I'm Diabetic, and at Christmas gave me a pretty bottle of hand cream instead of chocolate - yet today presented me with above-mentioned egg as if it were a pot of gold, then got upset when I said "No thank you, I'm struggling with my Diabetes at the moment so I'd better not" - and implored me to take it - which, reluctantly, I did, then as soon as she'd gone and I'd checked the ingredients label I offered it to a colleague who has 3 children - if I'd kept it on my desk the temptation to eat it would have been horrible, and my blood sugar levels would have rocketed.
Does this happen to others?
How do you deal with it?
Are a manager's feelings more important than my/your health?
I'm used to saying no when colleagues offer birthday cake etc, and no-one else has been upset or urged me to take a piece, they accept that I either can't or will only have a small piece, depending how I'm feeling - but how to deal with someone who gets upset when I politely say no - help!