Okay, but just to chime in here. You think you are pre-LADA, yet you have an HbA1C of 38 and the highest it has been is 42.
You want to use a term that means "pre-Type2" but are insistent that you are pre-type 1.
Unless you've had the various antibody tests that identify that you may go on to develop a form of T1 (which I don't believe that you've mentioned, but feel free to correct me if I'm wrong), the most likely scenario is that your 42 reading was a pre-T2 result.
You've presented no other evidence that backs up your claims, so I understand the moderators position. Of course, it's entirely within your own hands to change it, but they do have a point. One's own opinion of a diagnosis with no diagnostic evidence is not great form for a support forum.