@NoKindOfSusie, you’ve got diabetes, end of.
Being angry with it, or us, isn’t going to make it go away. It’s up to you how you live with it.
You say people are trying to persuade themselves that it’s lovely. We’re not. Quite often we come on here to look for others who’ve found a way to cope with a particular diabetes situation we’ve encountered, or to vent after an incident that others on this site will understand from their own experience. Sometimes we want to celebrate an achievement.
Sometimes we just want to be lighthearted or speak with forum friends. And why not?
One thing most of us know though, however long we’ve had it for, is that like the rest of life it has its ups and downs. And it’s not equal, it affects us all individually. But it doesn’t have to prevent us from having any happiness, success, adventure.
We just have to work at it. That can be hard sometimes. It takes a bit of time, occasionally it takes a lot of time. We always need to be aware of our extra companion, T1.
If you make T1 your enemy, though, it’s war - and the enemy inevitably has better weapons than you: it’ll devastate both your body and your mind. So why do it?