SueR said:
I have been overweight all of my life and I still will not blame myself.
We are all different and react differently to things. I am on insulin because there are a lot of diabetic drugs that my body will not tolerate. Is that my fault too ? I'm lucky I have a very understanding GP and yes I have had complications too, as a result of not being diagnosed sooner - was registered with a different GP then. No way is this my fault and do I blame anyone errr no.
I get on with my life and enjoy it to the full, it's too short for 'what ifs' and recriminations...
Late arrival to this discussion (I've been on holiday
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I think I am with ladybird64 - I don't think you were told it was your fault, but I agree that the explanation by your HCP does not look reasonable (I hope).
Now please read on, accepting that I am playing devil's advocate here and not stating my own beliefs - I am just discussing a proposition and the posibble implications 8)
O.K., let us assume that you are really granted just so much insulin in your life.
What does insulin do?
It takes excess glucose out of your blood stream and dumps it in your tissues to store for future use.
Lack of insulin (or a lack of responsiveness in your tissues to insulin) leaves too much sugar in your blood.
This is Not A Good Thing (a.k.a. Diabetes).
So assume that you have only so much insuling granted to you for your whole life.
How do you avoid using it up too soon?
You only eat enough food to meet your short term energy needs and so do not need much insulin to keep your blood sugar under control.
This is a strategy used by low carbers to make best use of the insulin they have left.
One other thing that this can do is stabilise or lower your weight, as you are not laying down fat stores and if you under eat you are likely to cut into your reserves.
How do you use your precious store of insulin up quickly?
Stuff in the carbs and sugars, and use loads of insulin getting sugar out of your blood stream and into your tissues.
Oh, and it is generally stored as fat once any immediate short term energy needs have been met.
So if we go with the "only so much insulin in your life" theory then the sign of someone who has been abusing their precious insulin reserves is that they are fat.
So the "only so much insulin in your life" theory suggests that in some cases the person who has run out (or nearly run out) of insulin has only themself to blame because they burned a lot of it up unnecessarily.
Which seems to me to be a very blaming attitude.
End of abstract discussion 8)
We need to understand what causes diabetes and what can be done to reduce the incidence in future generations.
This means that we should examine our own situation, HCPs should examine our current condition and long term history, and then we can get some ideas of common factors and perhaps work to eliminate them.
This is not the same thing as pointing the finger of blame.
A few things that would be good
:arrow: If we do have only a fixed amount of insulin, can we have a fuel guage and an MPG calculator?
:arrow: Can we have testing for the genes linked to diabetes? This might help to identify those most at risk and allow early intervention.
:arrow: Can we have a test which estimates the size/effectiveness/robustness of a pancreas? Again to allow early intervention. Or to allow the "sorted - I can eat what I like - approach :lol: "
To get back to the original topic, not all fat people get diabetes, in the same way that they don't all have heart attacks. Not all smokers get cancer. Not all heavy drinkers get liver failure. However it is generally considered that some factors do increase risk in those who are genetically susceptible (or not genetically resistant).
Just to misquote Ecclesiastes - the race is not always to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, but that's the way to bet.
Bottom line - we may realise that we have not helped ourselves in the past.
That was then, this is now.
We can't change our past, so there is no point in assigning blame and feeling guilty.
What we need to focus on is what is best for us in the future, and go for it.
Cheers
LGC