Just to clarify the high tea issue; I'm Dutch, and an Anglophile. I loved antiques, romance, class, traditional British things (from your china patterns to royalty) from when I was a kid. (My mom's the same. The embodyment of Hyacinth Bucket, but less.. Hyacinth-y.) When we went for a high tea at our wedding, it was an expression of things I loved, and wanting to share them with our families. I can do without the food just fine. Weirdly enough, as I never thought I'd say that.
I just can't express that side of myself and share it with my loved ones anymore. Though I still adore my Earl Grey.
Food is sentiment, I guess. But I've spent some time looking at the venue's menu options today, and their barbecue buffet works perfectly with keto. And maybe it's my husband's time to share his preferences now.