Annb
Expert
Glad to hear you are feeling a bit better today - sometimes it's good to share your concerns. It helps to bring them back down to size. This forum is a great place to share.02.08
7.40am FBG 5.8
@Annb @gennepher @dunelm
Thank you all for the supportive messages. Apparently a good moan and Some sympathy has helped immensely, am feeling a lot better this morning. A sunny morning after another deluge in the night. It is also possible that there have been crossed wires or misinformation as at least one of my sons was not aware I wouldn't be here when they arrived...
Optimistically, or perhaps foolishly last night extended invitation for coffee on thursday to some other english ladies who live nearby. However I was under the mistaken impression that it was monday yesterday. So now need to do panic cleaning before visitors tomorrow. And I promised cake...
The house is a renovation project, now almost complete, but since my brother has not been here for over a year they will both be keen to see the improvements. So it needs to be at least clean and tidy. Same for the garden. Would like it to be tidy. As for the driving I do use all the tactics suggested, but thank you all for thinking of me and making suggestions.
Now cleaning!!!
Thinking of things needing cleaned up and blackened pots and kettles, who am I to advise you not to be stressed? I do it all the time - whenever I know people will be coming here. Not so much worried about the state of the house - it is as it is and isn't going to change. It's feeding people. It's what I do and I seem to have a reputation for it so I don't want to disappoint. So I push myself too far and end up in serious pain. That's after spending the days beforehand planning and working out how late I can leave prep so that I can work at a very slow pace and still get things done in time. I only realised last evening, after I had collapsed in the chair and slept for 2 hours after my guests left, just how much strain I had put myself (body and mind) under. Ridiculous. I vowed to desist in future. A simple repaste will have to do, not the over-catered thing I usually do.