i havent a clue what your talking about Monkey, all i see is people searching for answers and people that have been lucky enough to have the strength like yourself to gain the control everyone would like to have, all your post is showing is an intolerance to the less strong, i cant imagine what folks thinking about posting for the first time and struggling to get control are thinking about this, its easy for you, great! but dont look down on the less fortunate people that struggle every step of the way, im sure most have had far too many kicks up the bum in the real world, if you think you havent been lucky your wrong, i agree occasionally someone wont listen to good advice but we have to take those folks with a pinch of salt and get on with helping folks that do listen and make the changes, i cant remember the last time i saw a post from you and now you come here to moan about the moaners
oops missed the second page when i posted this, id better read it quick lol