Firstly, is your dd doing better? Secondly, welcome! I think you did the only thing possible under those circumstances!
I am thinking of packing a “go bag” for when my 91-yr-old mom with dementia winds up in the ER, as she did a few weeks ago. Mr ZF went home and brought me good foods, slippers, and a fuzzy sweater, as I was dressed for playing a concert! So my emergency food would include cheese and almonds for starters. Haven’t gotten any further.
I’m going to tag
@BibaBee to come say hey. She is playing the same supportive role you and dd are.