Hi Debra - to answer your last question, I test 3 or 4 times a day, and whilst I agree with what you say that we are not all the same, I really think I'm going to do my own thing and see how it goes, because obviously the dietdoctors one is just not to my liking, as it turns out the veg on that diet are indeed, the only veg I have ever bought, as I dislike the others, so there's really no change for me, as I've (unknowingly) been eating low carb veg anyway. Unlike you, I'm sorry to say i won't be counting calories, it's one of the reasons why I have in the past joined diet clubs, only for a few weeks at a time, I hated the club mentality, and sitting alongside a bunch of women who mainly had no intention of using will power (I have that in abundance) and go to the chip shop after meatings for fish and chips - just awful, and I noticed it a lot. For me to start to weigh things, count calories, I just refuse to do it, but as they say if that's what works for you by all means do it, you and others are probably used to that way of working.
For me, and I know myself well, if I started the count thing, it would only last a week, then I'd get fed up - oddly enough, despite my weight, food is not the be all and end all for me, and i'm not even sure if I'm all that bothered about the diabetes now.
Yesterday whilst at the garden centre I met an ex colleague of mine who is a lot slimmer than me, always was, she told me she'd been diabetic for 3 or 4 years, as was her brother (now decd) both with Type 2, I told her my brother also has type 2 and that I was told it can run in families, and you do not have to be overweight or obese to have it. It was very nice to see her, it's been about 10 years since we last met, and will meet up next week for coffee. I asked her what she did - 'absolu6tely nothing, I don't even do readings' that amazed me, but she seems fine on it.