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Today was like an energy thief.
I had a whole day planned of a specific area of going through sorting out and throwing away, when some phone calls arrived, which left answer messages which said there were problems with my bank account. I was surprised that it was not recognised as spam so I double checked with my bank and PayPal because both were mentioned.. there are no problems and it was definitely spam.
But that took valuable time and sort of shook me a bit. No, I did not press anything. I would not have done., but it is all worrying.
Then a letter came saying I had a parking ticket. And they had a fine £51.. it was from a retail park. where there have been no restrictions before.. so that's upsetting me badly. But as a disabled person the new time restrictions don't give me enough time to do what I need to do.. I am still trying to get my scooter out of the car and set it up, when other customers have leapt out of their cars walked briskly into the shop and come back out with a trolley full of stuff, and I've only just managed to set up my scooter, had a rest and I'm about to go in. Multiply that over a few shops within the same large retail park, and the shops are in different sections, and I am in there a lot longer than able bodied person. It's just not always practical to drive over the whole place with the scooter so I have to put the scooter back in and take it out again on the other side. On this particular occasion, the one I was fined for, I was 4 1/2 hours in the retail park., and it now has a three hour time limit, and I had had an hour break at a coffee shop to regain some energy before I finished my shopping. . And I usually have a short break in the car between shops because it is too tiring for me..It is not worth me driving to the retail park just to do one or two shops which is all I would have time to do....
I was very upset, but I decided to pay the fine rather than argue about it and argue about it as a disabled person annd vowed never go back again. I did curse the retail park and wished them no luck. But this severely restricts me as a disabled person trying to manage on my own.
Often time restrictions are not long enough for me as a disabled person, and I cannot argue and fight every issue and every time this crops up..
I checked out online a couple of other retail parks I have used and they now have a three hour time limit. There is one that has a four hour time limit and that is more reasonable for a disabled person, but I have been staying too long at that one, There is another retail park where I stay longer than the 3 hours, but I have never been fined for that yet. It is the one I meet my friend once a month to talk.and eat, and I normally get there an hour early to do a little bit of shopping before I meet my friend. I have a distance to drive before I get there., and if I am unable to do a bit of shopping first, and we have to time watch our conversations it is not worthwhile.
So I texted my friend and told her we are never meeting again in a retail park, even though it was apparently convenient. I researched this afternoon and found a garden centre nearby which is not too far from where she lives, because she cannot leave her disabled husband for too long, but she hates looking for new places, she cannot use a map in the car, nor a satnav, but I have given her that new place as a possibility. It advertises no time restrictions.. I will probably end up having to meet her somewhere she knows and she will have to follow me in her car to that location.. she has not got back to me yet but she'll have to do that if she wants to meet me next week.
So I have lost a valuable day in my sorting and tidying and throwing out. The sun was out today so I really missed being out in that..
I don't very often go to a retail park, but I found them convenient every now and then as a disabled person on my own.
I am pretty sure, even an able bodied person, would not find three hours long enough to do their shopping and have a meal... oh heck I've just realised there's another one, I will have to check if there's time restrictions to that one.
It is 8 pm. I'm going to sleep now because I have had enough of today....
Night night...
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