In all probability it is the continued stress
@Lamont D regardless of whatever happened later with Mrs D.
I am not a doc or a nurse, but the way I see it, it is probably more important, given in these circumstances, to eat regularly during the day rather than have one meal a day.
You are under continuous stress with Mrs D, not knowing if or when something unexpected will happen.
That will impact on your readings.
When I am under stress I forget to eat and drink.
I wish I could offer some idea how to help xx
@Lamont D you know you better than anyone else but as a general rule a low carb OMAD doesn't equate with diet being good. It merely equates with being low carb. After a certain period of time some people report that it can be counter productive to fbg levels. If one consumes a day's worth of calories in one meal studies sow it is problematic . I'd say that looking after yourself is vital as a carer. OMAD when very busy or every other week is fine, a long run is likely more problematic after a long time - years in your case? - on LC which normally causes people to lose weight. As
@gennepher says stress can be the cause of raised bg levels as can tiredness, low level illness or a myriad of other things than carbs. Take care.
Thanks, I am totally stressed, angry, so frustrated, so ******.
And I have heard about it all before.
It has been since I got up, a very bad experience today.
A really bad one.
Mrs L was up before me at 3.30. But I got her back in bed. She thought it was mid afternoon.
I got up at 6.30 and Mrs L had got herself a cuppa. I think that is how I woke up.
I made a fresh one but that meant no rybelsus for her.
Then as I gave her, her other meds.
She insisted on getting the meat for Chrimbo meat out to defrost.
Gammon for Chrimbo eve, Turkey for Chrimbo day. Beef for boxing day.
She also wanted the duck out for pops.
Wondering where it all was?
After straightening that out by showing her the amnesiac clock.
I had to straighten the freezer, before ablutions and usual chores first thing.
Then Mrs L wanted to go shopping at 7.30 am.!!!!
However, she had a short nap after another cuppa.
Woke up, went to go out the freezer, but thankfully I managed to persuade her otherwise.
An hour or so later, I told her I was off to the shop.
Went through the questions and asked if Mrs L wanted to go over with her shopping walker?
No!
On the way back with the shopping, Mrs L was waiting for me just outside the garden gates.
We went back the shop, and I think I lost it and am still recovering, whilst also being there to help her with the usual stuff, and I feel I have been a bad carer for her.
My anger, my frustration, with her obsession like conversation over chrimbo and food and anything that can be so hard for me to try and be reasonable with it all.
And of course, Mrs L remembers nothing about the shop, the traffic, the meat, chrimbo and such.
Which is frustrating in itself.
I know why it has become like this...
Mrs L doesn't want Christmas to be here, and it is causing extreme anxiety, and even though, Mrs L knows I do the majority of things, Mrs L believes that she has to help with it all.
Her father died nearly three years ago on boxing day.
And Mrs L has never got over it.
I'm sorry about it all, as usual, and that is why, I'm writing this.
My best wishes to you lot as always.