Hi
@aseriesofunfortunateevents and welcome to the forum.
There are estimated to be around 10% of Type 2 diabetics who were slim when diagnosed and there are even teenagers with Type 2, but it's very unusual to be so slim, so unless both a cpeptide and an antibody test show you as Type2 then there is still a possibility that you are Type 1 since this would be more common for somebody like you.
Thin Type 2s are usually TOFI (Thin Outside, Fat Inside) this means that they carry some visceral fat in and around organs such as the liver and pancreas etc. In fact there is a medical condition called NAFLD (non-alcoholic fatty liver disease) which is caused by eating lots of fruit, grains and other starchy or sugary food.
In my late 60's when diagnosed as Type 2, I was considered reasonably slim (though I had put on over 2 stone since my 20's). So my GP's had not been concerned about my weight or possibility of diabetes. In fact they had been encouraging me to eat lots of fruit and whole grains - just the things to cause NAFLD.
There are thought to be 2 non-medical ways of beating Type 2 either dramatic weight loss or Low Carbohydrate way of eating. Because of not being fat I did it with Low Carb, but discovered that even though I didn't consciously cut calories I still lost weight.
I think that both methods of beating Type 2 are rather intertwined. If you crash diet (800calories per day) then you naturally eat fewer carbs the same as if you consciously eat fewer carbs then you probably eat more fat and protein which makes you satiated quicker and so you lose weight! Personally I prefer to be satiated than feeling I'm starving, but still many others still take the opposite approach.