Now THAT'S the kind of partner many would die for
@Dianecz
( and i'm sure your husband feels the very same about you....)
so relax for a minute..and just breathe slowly.
no ones going to anywhere.
Btw, Congratulations on the wedding, and the enduring love affair.
( we are in the same boat, and have lasted WAY longer then any of our friends relationships.)
Now back to helping your man.
Many will post excellent help and assistance, because we have all been where you are now, just after we got diagnosed.
( i know i was....and i sure ain't dead yet..
)
but for simpleness..your beloved is allergic to sugars.
which if you don't know, we also get sugar/glucose from the carbs we eat when they get broken down inside us, once eaten.
so essentially we are allergic to carbohydrates.
and if your allergic to something .what do ya do..?
exactly... avoid or cut down.
but until we get a bit more idea of what the HBA1C score was ( the official test to say yep, you got diabetes )
and what medication/s he's on.
we are a little in the dark.
But cutting back on some of the higher carbs might be a good idea.
so although sugars is off the table, some sweet foods are too.
as well as some of the every day foods i used to eat lots of, also..
for me that was potatoes, rice and pasta.
to begin with.
(if it helps with shopping i don't bother with calories..i simply look at the Carb content on packets and tins
under 5gm per 100, it goes in the basket..5-10 i um and ahh, then decide IF its worthy ..and over 10gms
it goes right back on the shelf sharpish.)
i then fine tuned it with a better selection of vegetables and snacks befitting a type 2 diabetic.
and my HBA1c numbers at diagnosis, came DOWN from 57 oct 2018..
( Reasonably high, but others have started out much higher.)
to 42 in january 2019..and trust me i didn't starve or miss out on too much.
as an aside, the diabetes has struck us..(your husband and i ) at a late stage in out lives after taking many years to grow and become an issue.
i personally feel that the way of eating ..Low Carb/High (better) fats.is giving me protection from the potential damages and complications T2D (type 2 diabetes) can cause.
Sufficient enough that while i truly believe it HAS and is still putting my diabetes into remission.
.... if it isn't reversing or 'curing' my diabetes, ..it will have pushed back the diabetes for several years, perhaps even a decade or two.
so i fell it's more likely i'll be hit by a bus then anything diabetes can throw at me.
But it did take some learning from the good people on here, and taking a little time to practice what was spoken of
AND find the foods that DID agree with me better, and DIDN'T spike my allergies.
so it's a bit like school...
lots of homework, plenty of practice PLUS you/he gets to try out some new exciting recipes,
which will all go a long way to helping you and your husband make better food choices going forward.
Good bless you both,
and best of luck on your Journey.
Long may it last.