Hi mate.
You know my background on this.
I have nothing but the
utmost respect for you or anyone dealing with a loved one with such an illness.
I saw my dad bend himself double to cover mum from the worst life threw at her with this wretched disease.
He became her shield from life as it slowly became for her, and he shielded her from herself.
Did he get frustrated and angry...You bet he did
You'd have to be a machine to not feel the intensity this brings and how it stretches the very sinews of mind & body.
But did he love.... unconditionally.
That man, much like you right now, went to the end of his endurance to care, love & protect mum, for many years.
I can't find any words to make this right or easier.
But one word sums up how you & people like You, do what really can't & shouldn't be possible for just one person to do, yet they do it, alone, because it needs to be done.
Sure, people get help, dad did, but none of us lived that life he had with mum, day after day, 24/7....
Yet what exhausted me, he just did relentlessly week in, week out, until he couldn't .
That word.....?
Unbelievable.
Unbelievable what people manage to do
Unbelievable how they cope with the un-copeable
Unbelievable the depths of love they have for another
Yet totally believable, that at times they break, at times they weaken, and at times they get frustrated....who wouldn't.
But that doesn't stop them picking up where they left of and doing it all again tomorrow....and the days after.
I know your not after praise, and as many say, do please post here, please .
Let that angst have form, let the pressure be released in written form
But be in no doubt, I among many here I think, standing on the sidelines, are in awe of all you do for Mrs L.
No one carries such a burden & escapes being unscathed by frustration.
It's a sign despite the super human efforts they make, they are mere flesh & blood.
And acknowledging that is the hardest thing to do,when you think being strong IS the answer.
Sometimes the storm is too strong for us to stand tall, and at those times, sensible people bend into the storm.
You're doing alright
@Lamont D
You're doing alright, mate.
God bless you .