I am late this morning. Well afternoon now.
Fbg 6.7
I had to do some more shopping. Some of you may remember from a while ago at the beginning of lockdown in March that I was complaining it was not a good experience shopping at most of the shops near me. No consideration etc for a disabled person. And I had another bad experience yesterday like I said.
And you may remember when we in Wales were allowed to travel a bit further than our front doorstep, I went to a Retail Park and town some miles away (further into Wales) and it was a pleasant experience.
Well I went there again today. This morning. People were polite, courteous, considerate, chatty (and I don’t know anyone there) etc, all good things. No one pushed, no one shoved over me and my mobility scooter to get what they wanted off the shelves, etc like they did yesterday in that retail park near me. It was so dispiriting yesterday, and disheartening yesterday.
This morning in the retail park and town I had to travel just over half an hour to get to, it was a completely different atmosphere and good vibrations in that town. It was a totally positive experience this morning. People said Thank you, You are welcome, Can I help you, Can I reach that for you, Do you need anything else off the shelves, and at the till I said oh I’ve forgotten such and such and the cashier said No problem I will go and get it for you and brought back several alternatives for me to choose from, and if I said I couldn’t lipread through a face mask they either lowered their face mask or wrote it down etc without needing asking.
I seriously couldn’t get over the total difference between my negative local retail park, and this positive retail park some miles away.
I did a lot. I did too much and pushed myself too much so am paying for it in bed now as soon as I got back home. I pushed myself to get everything done so I didn’t need to go out again before Christmas.
But I hadn’t needed to do that. I am more than happy to go back again to that retail park some distance away. I even got a sack of 5 kilograms of small onions for £1!!! I love onions! It was much cheaper shopping there too. And the cashiers packed my bags without me having to ask. It makes a heck of a difference that.
The police had some roadblocks just before this town and retail park, because English people had been coming over the Flintshire Bridge, from England because the border is just before the bridge, and that road to the Flintshire Bridge begins in England, when they shouldn’t have done. And I had stopped going because of the roadblocks.
But I won’t let that stop me in future.
I managed to get to a charity shop today, and got loads more stuff for the bathroom window grotto, and a bit more. I have got some good stuff. I will explain when I create the grotto decorations...
I was unable to get chicken wire. It is all sold out along with double cream, and cat litter. None to be found anywhere in the shops. (I ended up at the Equestrian place again to get horse bedding to use in place for cat litter, it’s wood pellets and works well and is cheap). So I had to text youngest grandson in Australia that I wasn’t going to be able to make a life sized Santa, which I had promised him for the grotto (he is actively helping me from the other side of the world).
A short while later a message came back saying Mum says why don’t you get a red babygro, and put your balloon Santa head on that. This is now going to turn out real spooky now. And a lot easier to create! He is going to give me what face he wants drawn on Santa balloon that day.
I found a red babygro in the charity shop. And then in the pet shop I found a red Santa outfit for a very small dog...this is going to look brilliant!!!!!!!
Now I need to sort out the wheelie bin and recycle....back in a bit...